We have been incredibly lucky with neighbors ... until now. A family just moved in downstairs and I know we aren't going to let Colter play with the little girl, mostly because her mother routinely tells her to shut up and has lots of nasty nicknames for her. While the part of me that wants to protect the world would like her to find a second (kinder) home with us, the part of me that wants to protect my son knows that he's likely to get in trouble by picking up some bad habits she's, no doubt, inherited from her mom. I think we can explain this to Colter. But how in the world are we going to explain to this kid why Colter can never play?