For me, cuddling is cozy, warm, luxurious -- its own unique pleasure, like taking a long hot bath. For every man I've ever known, cuddling is a prelude to sex or sleep or both. In their defense, men may have some noticeable involuntary reactions to spooning. And once they feel the itch, they want to be scratched. So, what do you think -- is cuddling foreplay or fun in itself or both?
Heh, maybe I've hit a peak or something, but my poor hubby doesn't dare cuddle me if he isn't gonna follow through!! ;) I don't think he minds too much though!!
Posted by: Amber | December 14, 2003 at 12:14 PM
i don't remember! :(
Posted by: barbara | December 13, 2003 at 08:05 PM
For me, it's a singular activity...but being that I'm not single, it's automatically foreplay. Spooning? Guaranteed schwiiiiinnnnngg.
Posted by: Kelly | December 13, 2003 at 08:01 PM
Although most of my cuddling intentions are just for fun, when my hubby chooses to indulge me they always seem to lead to something more. I look at it as a win-win situation... it's just getting him to cuddle in the first place that can be hard.
Posted by: Helene | December 13, 2003 at 04:23 PM
Both, I would say. My husband might say something different though. lol
Posted by: Amy | December 13, 2003 at 03:38 PM